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When anger is hot, slow the tongue and choose repair over escalation.

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When anger is hot, slow the tongue and choose repair over escalation.

Step away for one minute, breathe deeply, and say quietly: I seek refuge in Allah from Shaytan.

Send one calming line instead of a long reaction, or delay the conversation until you can speak with dignity.

Before sleep, ask Allah for a clean heart and decide on one repair action for tomorrow if you were unjust.

العربية

عندما يشتد الغضب، أبطئ لسانك واختر الإصلاح بدل التصعيد.

ابتعد دقيقة واحدة، وتنفس بعمق، وقل بهدوء: أعوذ بالله من الشيطان الرجيم.

أرسل جملة مهدئة واحدة بدل رد طويل، أو أخر الحديث حتى تستطيع الكلام بكرامة.

قبل النوم، اسأل الله قلبا سليما وحدد خطوة إصلاح واحدة لغدك إن كنت قد ظلمت.

Response plan

Now / Next / Tonight
Now

Step away for one minute, breathe deeply, and say quietly: I seek refuge in Allah from Shaytan.

Next

Send one calming line instead of a long reaction, or delay the conversation until you can speak with dignity.

Tonight

Before sleep, ask Allah for a clean heart and decide on one repair action for tomorrow if you were unjust.

Evidence

Source-backed
Qur'an 3:134

Those who restrain anger and pardon people.

Boundary note

Risk control
Boundary

If the conflict includes abuse or danger, prioritize safety and outside support before reconciliation.